Tuesday, December 2, 2014



I'm a member of a private group for young widowed people on Facebook where we safely discuss sensitive matters that we deal with on a daily basis due to our circumstances. One member recently asked if anyone had a premonition that something terrible was going to happen, and in thinking of my response, a host of memories came flooding back; things I hadn't thought of in a long time. When I think about the thoughts and feelings I had leading up to my husband's unexpected death, and knowing the things that I know now, it kind of blows me away. 

This was my response in that post: 

I was so worried he would get into an accident coming home from school or work, like falling asleep at the wheel, or some other demise. I was getting really nervous about it the days leading up to it. I remember laying my head on his chest when we were in bed one night and listening to his heartbeat thinking, "I gotta soak this up." Why would I think that?? At some point or another, he had told me all of his wishes. I knew he wanted to be cremated, have a party to celebrate his life and not a cry fest, he didn't want to be viewed, specific things like that. And he said if anything ever happened to me first, he would remarry. I was like, "WHAT?? You'd better pine for me for the rest of your living days!" Now I think he was giving me permission while he was still alive. 

I think that not only did I have a "premonition" of my husband's passing, but I think he did as well. Having told me all those details at one point or another during our ten years together (he was only 39 at the time of his accident), I believe a part of him knew, too. 

Wednesday, November 12, 2014

Father Al

Father Alphonsus Trebold was an Ordained Franciscan Monk who taught at St. Bonaventure University. He became well known for performing the exorcism of the haunting at the Hinsdale House. He was a very good friend of mine, and when I was in my late twenties/early thirties, he helped me greatly by explaining to me what my abilities are. He is the one that lead me to the police department to work with missing persons cases. 

In the early 80's when I was a police officer, he asked me to give a lecture for the students at Jamestown Community College on psychic ability. During the lecture, a man who was part of a group that debunked psychics, challenged me by saying, “I was told by a psychic that she worked on some cases, so I asked the police officer and he said that she didn't work on the cases.” I asked him, “Which one do you believe?” and he said, “The police officer, of course!” I replied, “Well, I'm a psychic AND a police officer… Now who are you going to believe?” In a situation like that, many times police officers aren't willing to admit that they have worked with a psychic, and a psychic working with the police on a case are often not able to discuss the case for confidentiality reasons. 

After the lecture was over, I called up Father Al and half joking asked him, “What are you doing to me? You told me it was a lecture- not a debate!” He said, “I knew you could handle it!" It made me feel great to know that this man who I have so much respect for had that much confidence in me!

I was also invited to Wellsville to give a similar lecture, and I ended up staying for the whole day speaking to one class after another. One of the students who was taking notes as the school reporter asked me if I believe in God, and I said, “Yes I do.” Because of that, many of the priests in the area implied I was preaching religion in school. If someone asks me if I believe in God or Jesus, I'm going to tell them yes. They asked me why I believe my abilities are a God-given gift, and I told them because Father Trebold confirmed it for me. Those priests called him about it, and he quickly came to my defense in his very gentle, diplomatic way.

Shortly after Father Al’s death in April of 2005, a lovely article was written about him by Jim Miller for The BonaVenture. Here is a brief excerpt:

    "Any power that we have has to ultimately come from God," he said in 2003, becoming animated as he warmed to his favorite subject.  "That's to be understood.  Otherwise, it just wouldn't be there.  Very often, you will find that people associate any kind of paranormal ability - for instance, ESP - (with) something evil.  I've had certain groups of clergymen of certain denominations condemn these things.  They say it's the Devil.  No!" - here his voice rose, strong and enthusiastic - "No, it isn't.  It's just things we don't understand."

A couple of weeks before he died, he stopped by and took me to lunch. I'm very grateful for that time with him. And I will always be grateful that he gave me the courage to acknowledge that my abilities are a gift from God, and that I use them for the greater good.

Tuesday, November 4, 2014


It appears that psychic abilities can be hereditary; at least judging from my own experience. Though everyone can possess some level of ability, I liken it to someone who is naturally gifted with music. Any talented person can be taught to play an instrument, but when it comes naturally, it is always much more easily developed and can be taken to a level that exceeds the norm. 

What have your experiences been? Do you think psychic ability could be inherited? 

Please share your ideas in your comments - we love participation from our readers! =) 

Monday, October 27, 2014

Recent Readings

Post from Andrea:

A couple of weeks ago, Judie came out for a group reading at my house for three of my friends, and another friend who couldn't make it on that day went to her office a few days later. They all want to see her again - go figure! ;)

Friend #1 came downstairs beaming, and amazed by some of the things she was told. She received some very specific information. Judie asked her, "What is going on with the third son?" She also mentioned that he's a lot like his dad, and said he needs to change his attitude. She also said the man who is in her life now will be her next husband.

Friend #2 came downstairs with happy tears, thrilled to have been able to connect with her mom who passed when she was young. Her mother never had the opportunity to meet her children, and the messages she received from her made it clear that her mom really does see what's happening in their lives.

Friend #3 came downstairs also in tears from the touching messages she received. Judie told her she's very sensitive and that she should trust herself. She even told her she has two sons... She also told her that her grandfather who is in spirit walks with her and cares about her. Her boyfriend from long ago who had passed at a very young age came through as well. He apologized for being young and foolish (which lead to his passing). He said he "sits with the boy child" which is likely the baby boy she miscarried.  

I took Friend #4 to Judie's office a few days later. This friend lost her husband to cancer when her children were just babies. He told Judie about the charm bracelet he bought her, and even asked if she got a charm for it while she was in Disney (crazy specific)! She just returned from a trip to Disney World before her reading! Judie asked her what the connection was between her daughter and cows... My friend said that it's because her daughter's nickname is 'Maddy moo moo' since birth. Judie also told her that her son is very much like his dad, and will likely get into the field of electronics. 

These are obviously brief summaries of the readings that were done- I don't know all the details of each, but these are some of the things my friends were willing to share with me. 

I was also fortunate to have a reading done, and my late husband Matt wished me a Happy Birthday and showed Judie a mixed bouquet of fall-colored flowers. This confused me at first, until the next day on my actual birthday, I received a bouquet of flowers meeting that description from my brother! Matt also told Judie that he is content now, and that the children and I are in a good place. He sees me going to the Carolinas during the warm weather. Said there will be many changes. It was right about that point when my daughter Sydney knocked on the door of the room we were in. At that moment, Judie said she felt Matt's frustration at not being able to physically be here with the kids. She said he walks the house often. She mentioned that Jacob will be involved in something to do with space (he has talked about working for NASA for a long time already - I believe he can and will follow through with that), and she also said that Sydney will excel beyond our expectations, too. She said she sees me in a plain wedding gown, and the number three- could be three months or three years before I either meet the guy or something, but Matt said he will send him to me.

My friends were able to connect with some of the loved ones they had lost, and just knowing they are still with them and see what's happening in their lives brought them so much peace and comfort. It was a first reading for all but Friend #3 and myself, but it did exactly the same for us, too.

Thank you so much from the bottom of our hearts, Judie!

Wednesday, October 15, 2014


Another post by Andrea: 

Judie recently told me of a spontaneous reading she had done for another widow... It started out as a lunch between friends. When Judie was explaining it to me, she said, 

"Do you know how weird and scary it is to tell someone that their husband is standing behind them and is telling me things to tell her? I wasn't sure if she would cry and run out of the building, or haul off and hit me!" 

Haha!! I never really thought about it like that from her perspective!  

Her friend didn't do any of those things... As Judie spoke to her and gave her the messages that only her husband would have known, her eyes began to shine. She had been crying on and off throughout the day, and as soon as she told her some of the comforting words he gave, her friend's whole demeanor changed. She felt so much better, and it made Judie feel as though her friend can now go forward with a bit more peace.  

It's only natural that when a dear loved one of ours passes, we look for any kind of sign from them that their spirit is still with us. We long to see them in our dreams and wonder what they think about the things that are happening in our lives now, or if they even know what's going on in our lives. Many times things were left unsaid that we wish we had the chance to say, or that maybe they needed to say to us. The void can be palpable and agonizing. This is probably the number one reason someone is lead to have a reading done by a psychic medium. Others may not understand this desire to connect, and some may even fear it. 

In my case, the devastating loss of my young husband is what lead me to meet with Judie. I was fortunate that one of my friends knew her beforehand, since I didn't know anyone personally who had this ability. I was also fortunate that Judie is authentic and loving, and that my husband came through loud and clear. It doesn't always happen that way...
I'm going on six years of widowhood now, and have become acquainted with many other people during this time who have also experienced some kind of devastating loss. Some of them have expressed their disappointment at the lack of signs or dreams... I try to reassure them that It is possible they have received some but dismissed them as coincidences. I used to do that all the time, explaining everything away, and even questioning the validity of my dreams. I have since learned from Judie, and through prayer, that I need to keep a more open mind and heart. The more open I am, the more receptive I'll be to take notice of the things I would have just blown off as coincidence. I'm paying more attention, listening more quietly, and am not so quick to dismiss these things.

God communicates with us. Jesus communicates with us. He made us in His likeness, so it makes sense that our loved ones communicate with us as well. That's my belief, anyway. Keep your heart and mind open, and you'll get your signs. =)

Monday, October 6, 2014

Happy Birthday, Judie!!!

This is a special Happy Birthday shout out to my dear friend!!

It's also a great opportunity to thank her for coming into my life and being such a wonderful friend, and example of strength, perseverance and love. This woman has beat some pretty incredible odds surviving Stage IV ovarian cancer, and has overcome many other personal trials.

Through it all, she maintains a fantastic sense of humor, quiet strength and resolve, and commitment to helping others through her gift.

Cheers to Judie, and to many many more birthdays to come!!! You are loved!! =)

(taken this past year with my daughter Sydney)

Tuesday, September 30, 2014


Today I'm writing this update for Judie... 

Let me give you a little bit of background (not too much, though - saving lots of details for the book!)...

When my husband Matt was killed in 2008, I was put in touch with Judie by a good friend of mine in hopes of connecting with him. We were fortunate that he was able to come through very strong, and has again so many times throughout my friendship with Judie. She gave me so many details that no one but he could have known (of course, she doesn't take any credit for that - HE is the one coming through with the details!). What an amazing gift I've been blessed with - to know that the love of my life is always with me and our two young children. He not only has given us this gift through Judie, but every once in a while when he comes through during one of Judie's and my conversations, it's just as much of a gift to Judie, too; letting her know he is still so strongly present helps reinforce Judie's confidence in what she does, and also gives her the encouragement to keep moving forward with her book. She told me that Matt made her start believing in herself again today, and that he is "a big part of our story." What a beautiful thing! 

Nine months after his death, I moved from NYS to California. During one of our cross-country telephone conversations, he cuts in. Judie got quiet for a moment and said, "Matt is showing me a brown teddy bear, and a wooden duck.

Matt's mom made a brown teddy bear that I'd been keeping on my bed, and the wooden duck was a carved box that Matt had forever, which was also in my bedroom, which is where I was when I was talking to her on the phone. He also showed her the silver heart necklace Sydney always wore at that time (she's since lost it, unfortunately).  

Then he showed her that he was wearing an orange t-shirt. She asked me, "What's the significance of the orange t-shirt??" That cracked me up!! Matt had an orange t-shirt that fit him a little tighter than the other t-shirts he wore, and between that (because showed off his muscles) and the fact he looked awesome in orange, it was a shirt that I loved on him. He would put that on, and I would look at him and say, "Oh baby!!" Haha! He enjoyed that as much as I did, and it was pretty cool that he showed that to Judie so she could tell me. He also told her that it wasn't a glass wall in my dream.  He was referring to the first dream I had of him after he died... 

In this dream, I was in a large room the size of a warehouse with a bunch of people, and the room was divided by what appeared to be a wall of glass. Matt was on one side of the glass with some people, and I was on the other side with some people. I was desperately trying to get his attention - yelling, jumping up and down and waving my arms, but he was looking down at his hands working on something intently, although I couldn't tell what he was doing. Nothing I did could get him to look my way. Finally, totally exasperated, I asked someone near me, "WHY is he not looking at me?!" and she said, "Because he's on the other side- he can't see you from there." Then I thought, "Oh My God. It really is over between us" like we had broken up or something. I cried so hard in my sleep that I woke up sobbing uncontrollably. It was then that I really felt the separation between us for the first time. 

Matt told Judie that it wasn't glass - it's a substance that he showed Judie to look like a gelatin wall. He demonstrated this by pushing his hand against it. Judie could actually see his hand, and what it looked like when he pushed against the gelatin wall - the imprint it made from his fingers as he pressed on it. She could see him pushing on the wall, and me on the other side of it.

She asked him, "How am I doing this? How can I see you and Andrea at the same time?" He let her know that she is able to have her mind be in both places at once. Then she said, "Write this down, Andrea - I'm not sure what he's saying or what it means, but he just said the words 'electromagnetic fusion' to me - what is that?" Ha! Hell if I know! Neither one of us are mechanical engineers, so we were both pretty stumped by it.  Later on, Judie asked her friend who happens to be an engineer what it means, and he explained that it's a transference of energy.

Leave it to Matt to get into the science of it. =P

What a hugely significant reading for both Judie and I. She said she's never had an experience quite like that one. Of course, it would be my husband that was responsible for that - he is just as amazing in spirit as he was in life... 

When I was talking to her yesterday on the phone, Matt came through again. She asked me if my son Jacob had a tough moment recently regarding Matt's loss (he's 10 now). I told her yes... Jacob and I were discussing our next door neighbor's son who is close to his age. He is mean to Jacob and Sydney (my daughter who is 7) and Jacob calls him his "enemy." I told Jacob that we don't have any enemies, and that he needs to realize that this poor kid is the way he is because he has a sad life. Jacob said, "SO DO I!" That kind of took me back for a moment, and I had to think hard before I reacted. I explained to him that even though he lost his daddy, we have a wonderful life - everything we need and a home filled with love. It's awful that we lost daddy, but we are blessed in so many other ways.

Matt reminded me (through Judie) not to minimize Jacob's loss. That's something I didn't even realize I was doing, but now that my attention has been brought to it, I have been - with both kids, even though I understand that anyone going through this needs to have their moment and wallow in it. Not for too long, but to feel it completely and get it out instead of repressing it. He gave a message for Jacob: "I'm still there, Buddy!" He always called Jacob "Buddy" - amazing. Thank you, My Love!! And thank you, Judie!!! 

I will end this here because I could go on forever, but we wanted to share with you just a little snippet. Thank you for reading! =)

Tuesday, September 23, 2014

There IS a difference...

I have encountered many interesting people recently, and one in particular jogged an old memory of a woman who requested a reading from me many years ago. 

It surprised me when she brought her husband along, and when I began the reading, she took my hand and tried to - well, what I would say is to read ME. She started talking about things pertaining to witchcraft, requesting that I visit their house on a full moon and do inappropriate things, and things pertaining to witchcraft. I immediately drew my hand away from her and said, "You requested a reading from me - I did not request one from you. And I do not ride the fence."

She wanted to know what I meant by that, and I explained it to her like this: 

"Either you are of God energy, or you are not. There is only one side or the other - no fence-riding. I am on the side of the light, and I will not take part of the other - never have and never will." 

So many people misunderstand the two, thinking they are the same. So many people believe that if you are a psychic reader that you are involved in witchcraft or the occult, but going into vision and reading is completely different from that. You cannot share in both things. You are either on one side of the fence or the other. If you start fence-riding, it's very easy to fall into darkness. I see no good coming from witchcraft. There are people that say they are "white witches" but that's like sticking your hand out to a snake and not expect to get bit. This is just my opinion, though. 

On a lighter note, I had a great weekend meeting many other interesting people, too!  When I am with a group, many times they will want me to do readings - sometimes I am comfortable with that, sometimes I am not. It requires a considerable amount of energy that I don't always have. When I do have the energy, I really enjoy helping to bring others peace by making a connection with a lost loved one. 

Monday, September 15, 2014

September 15, 2014

Today when I was talking to my friend Andrea, we talked a little bit about her late husband Matt...

Matt was only 39 years old when he died... He was a great person in life, and like so many others, it seems that his passing has had such a significant effect on so many people and has taught so many lessons. 

One of those lessons: We should appreciate today.

Just because you're young, vital, intelligent and healthy, there are no guarantees. 

I wish people would appreciate the here and now because yesterday is gone, and tomorrow is not promised; we need to live in the present. 

Monday, September 8, 2014

September 8, 2014


I received a call today to go to lunch with a very good friend of mine, and it really brought back memories from the first year we met, about thirty years ago. We had become acquainted when she hired me to do a group reading at the beauty shop she owned. Within a few months of our first meeting, she called me totally distraught because her daughter went missing. This was the first situation I ever worked on as a psychic investigator. 

This time of year reminds me of that very emotionally trying time, as I remember spending my birthday with them (early October) while they were searching for her. 

Her and her family have remained friends of my children and I for all these years since, and we have walked many miles together. Our journey has been long and sometimes tough, but they have been very helpful to my children and I over all these years. We have not just become close friends, but more like part of each other's family. 


I had such a wonderful experience last weekend... I was invited to visit my late ex-husband's family at a Labor Day party. He was the father of my four children, and even though he was my ex, it meant so very much to me to be included in their event. Both of my sons and my grandson played the music, and they played as well as they used to play in years past. My brother-in-law is an attorney, so there was an eclectic mix of people, and EVERYONE enjoyed the music - country, classic rock, etc. Everyone enjoyed each other's company, and I had the pleasure of watching my boys and my grandson having fun and enjoying themselves. Even though it rained all day, it was such a wonderful time! 

I do feel that life goes full circle. I have been through many different circumstances with them, but that day, it felt like it brought it all together for me. I was treated very well, I so appreciated being invited, and it was just how things used to be. That day it felt like it brought it all together for me, and seemed to bring it all full circle. 

Wednesday, September 3, 2014

September 3, 2014

Hi all, it's Andrea! I'm writing for Judie today, and while I was talking to her on the phone just a little while ago, she received a call from a woman she did a reading for a few years back (we'll call her "Kim"). Judie told Kim during that reading that her husband was going to have back pain, and that she should tell him that it's important that he go to the doctor.  

When Kim called Judie today, it was on her way home from the hospital so she could take a quick shower. She told Judie that her husband was having back pain and they weren't going to address it as important because they thought it was only indigestion. They were also ignoring it because they didn't have insurance, but then she remembered what Judie said years ago and her sense of urgency was raised. Her husband was having back pain. They had him checked out and it was discovered that he was having a heart attack and had to have stints put in. He's 47 years old... Kim called to thank Judie for what she told her during that reading because it possibly saved her husband's life. Please pray he has a quick, thorough recovery. 

Judie is hitting the road to Pennsylvania to visit her sweet 84 year old Aunt Jane who isn't doing so well. Aunt Jane vivaciously played the harmonica at Judie's last party in October and had an absolute blast. She is very musically talented and plays several different instruments, and Judie hadn't even known Aunt Jane played the harmonica until she busted it out on the stage for some wild entertainment! It was a moment that anyone who witnessed will never forget. =) 

Monday, August 25, 2014

August 25, 2014

It's funny how the universe works... I don't believe in coincidences. 

I was at an anniversary party the other day, and just happened to strike up a conversation with a lady who is a Spanish teacher. We got talking about the book I'm writing, and she mentioned she knew a person who wrote a book and the author was bragging about it. She had read it and said it was poorly written, and suggested that I make sure to have our book edited before publishing, and even offered to discuss the possibility of editing it for us! 

It's pretty amazing how doors have been opening left and right for us to make this a reality. 

Monday, August 18, 2014

August 18, 2014

I have kind of started over and decided to put more of my personal life in this book because people have come to me and told me that they are interested in me as a person.

One of the most frequent questions I get from people is, 

"How old were you when you first realized you were psychic?" 

I've had several people ask when our book is going to be finished, and they're already requesting a signed copy! 

One person said she's hoping it's done by Christmas so she can give signed copies as Christmas presents for her sisters! That really encouraged me to keep going. She's also the one that wanted to know more about my life and me as a person. My good friend Andrea told me that a long time ago, too... 

Monday, August 11, 2014

August 11, 2014

After many interruptions - vacations, summer, etc. - we're getting back down to business. Thanks for your patience!

Andrea came to my house to do some writing with me today, and her late husband Matt decided to join the party! He gave some pretty significant messages...Their daughter Sydney had just said to Andrea the other day, "Mommy, you know what's really sad? Daddy won't be able to go to my wedding." (She's 7, by the way...)

So the first thing Matt said today after showing Sydney in a white wedding gown was, "I will be at Sydney's wedding. I will be there in heart and in spirit, and there will be another very nice man walking her down the isle."

My daughter Jessica  (who I have always referred to as my Miracle Child) and her youngest daughter Shawna have been visiting from Las Vegas, and just left today. Andrea had a chance to meet them before they left, and Jessica shared a very interesting story with us about her granddaughter Charlotte speaking to people in spirit. It DOES run in the family!

There are many more details to both of these experiences, but you'll have to wait until our book comes out to read about it!

You can expect to see more updates on this blog every Monday! Thanks for visiting!

Wednesday, July 2, 2014

Happy Wednesday!

I just want to let everyone know I'm having a great summer already and am still diligently working on the book. I never stop having psychic experiences and meeting interesting people - both here and in spirit! 

As I'm writing this book, I'm becoming more willing and able to share these experiences to those who are wiling to read it. 

Please forgive the lapses in posts... I'm still here and still writing, and no matter what, will be back - so please keep checking! 

Your comments and questions help to keep me engaged on this blog as well, so keep them coming! 


Tuesday, May 6, 2014


You know how you get that feeling in your gut when you know something's not right?


Wednesday, April 16, 2014

My special gift...

I've experienced many forms of adversity over my lifetime, and each and every one - no matter how big or how small - has strengthened me and made me a better person. 

Everyone has a special gift - what's yours?

Wednesday, April 9, 2014

Thank you!

Thank you to everyone who came out for readings on Friday, and who supported our fundraiser on Sunday - we appreciate each and every one of you!

Monday, March 31, 2014

Coming out of the Closet

I have always been a very private person, and aside from doing public radio broadcasts with readings that benefit St. Jude's, I have kept a very low public profile. Partly due to the missing persons' cases I have worked on, partly because of habit from the time I was a child (I learned from a young age to keep certain things to myself), and partly because it's just part of my personality.

The past few years, however, I've been feeling compelled to tell my story and come out of the closet, so to speak. I have so much to share, and so much to give, and it's finally time.

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

What's a blog?

For those new to the "blogging" world, a blog is a bit like an on-line journal. It has kind of a different meaning and purpose for everyone who has one. In my case, it's a way for me to express different ideas and inspirations, and a way to reach out to my friends, family, and public to keep them updated with what I'm doing. 

Please keep checking back, as I will be posting updates often! 

Friday, March 14, 2014

Coming up...

Not only am I writing a book, but I'm also organizing a fundraiser for my granddaughter and friends on Sunday, April 6 from 1pm until about 6pm at the VFW Post in Cuba, NY (305 N Shore Rd, Cuba, NY 14727). We will have 50/50 raffles, Chinese auction, food and live music! 

Come see me on Friday, April 4 for 15 minute psychic readings for a donation of $25.00 beginning at 1pm, also located at the VFW Post in Cuba, NY. 

I hope to see you there! 

Monday, March 10, 2014


Welcome to my blog! My name is Judie Kahle and my friend and assistant, Andrea Row, is writing on my behalf since I have a serious vision problem that makes it very difficult for me to see and read.

I am a psychic medium and have spent many years helping people with the loss of their loved ones. I’ve also extensively worked with police and families with missing persons cases. It brings me great joy to help people find peace and closure with their hardships.

Andrea and I plan to write much more on this blog, and it’s gonna be good. We will not only be writing on this blog, but I am in the process of writing a book, and Andrea is my ghostwriter. We are so excited about this project! 

Although we are welcoming questions and comments on the blog, we have signed an agreement in which there is a confidentiality clause with regard to the book.  That means that although we are welcoming comments and questions, we don’t want to give away all the great stuff we’re putting in the book, so there will be times when we have to plead the 5th.  We hope you understand, and thank you for your patience!

We hope you get as much enjoyment out of reading this as we are from writing it. God Bless you all!